The first half of spring was full of flowers in bl The first half of spring was full of flowers in bloom and cool breezes. The second half has been violent daily storms that make the sky look like something out of a sci-fi movie. I’m just remembering to get my walks in early during the day so I can be home for dinner and a storm in the evening. 

🌿 Spotted some rainbow flares on a walk through the woods. 

🌿 Saw the cutest little guy walking around downtown Celebration. 

🌿 I love all the nature and architecture in Winter Park. 

🌿 Happy Mermaid week!

#springtime #intentionalliving #slowliving #naturewalks #cozyliving #intentionalmovement #cozyvibes #greenery #naturelovers #orlandoliving
Plants. Rainbows. Flowers. Tacos. #theseareafewofm Plants. Rainbows. Flowers. Tacos. #theseareafewofmyfavoritethings 

Also, if you are wondering where our review mirror is in that second photo, it’s so hot here that the connector piece just melted off that morning. 🫠 

#springtime #springflowers #plantlover #plantlife #pottery #plantpot #plantlove #flowerstagram #rainbow #rainbowaesthetic #nature #intentionalliving #slowliving #tacos #vegantacos
We have a little over a month left of spring and I We have a little over a month left of spring and I plan to spend it intentionally enjoying so much of what this season has to offer. April was a whirlwind of family emergencies and stress so this May, I’ve really been taking the time to slow down, live in the moment, and focus on joy. Every season I have a hygge bucket list of things I want to do at least once (but usually often) during that season. So many people write down and prioritize goals for their career or their body but it’s important to also create goals around your mental health and well being. 

How To Enjoy Hygge This Spring: 

🌷  Explore your neighborhood. 
🌷 Visit a botanical garden. 
🌷 Gift plants to your friends and neighbors.
🌷 Learn a new iced drink recipe.
🌷 Start a garden (or get one new plant).
🌷 Have a picnic. 
🌷 Eat seasonal vegetables and fruit.
🌷 Play an outdoor sport. 
🌷 Enjoy the natural light in your home.
🌷 Read on a hammock or bench outside. 
🌷Donate items you aren’t using often.
🌷Go to the farmer’s market.
🌷Do something creative.

How do you plan to enjoy the last month of spring this year?

#springtime #spring #springflowers #springflower #hygge #hyggelife #hyggestyle #hyggeliving #intentionalliving #intentionallife #joyfulliving #joyfulmoments #findingjoy
Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 3 was a 10 out of 10! Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 3 was a 10 out of 10! As we all know, I love the MCU as a whole but the Guardians are my absolute favorite. James Gunn did not disappoint. This was a very satisfying end to one of my favorite trilogies of all time. 

🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀

#guardiansofthegalaxy #guardiansofthegalaxyvol3 #marvel #marvelmovies #mcu #marvelcinematicuniverse #marvelcomics #amctheaters #disneysprings #nerdlife #marveluniverse #marvelfan
The saying April showers bring May flowers really The saying April showers bring May flowers really describes how I feel about the transition from last month to this month. May is already going much better than April and I can’t wait to see what other wonderful things happen this month. 🤍🌸 

#spring #flowers #springflowers #springweather #springnature #springdecor #hyggelife #intentionalliving #naturelovers #greatoutdoors #springinflorida #floridaspring #blueskies #slowliving #happymoments #serotoninboost
I’m so thankful to this sweet little girl for ge I’m so thankful to this sweet little girl for getting us through this crazy month. She kept us laughing and helped us manage our stress even on the more challenging days. I love her personality, even if she is a bit spoiled. 😅 I’m so glad we get to live in a world where dogs exist. 

#doglover #dogsarethebest #pitbulldog #pitbulladvocate #pitbullsofinstagram #dogsofinstagram #pitbulllove #emotionalsupportanimal #emotionalsupportdog #pitbullgram #cutedogs
Scenes from a earth day celebration with @disneyki Scenes from a earth day celebration with @disneykismet + @mmalikaj. 🌍🤍

#earthday #explore #earthdayeveryday #lovetheearth #loveourplanet #planetearth #animalkingdom #disneysanimalkingdom #dak #earthdaybirthday #wdw #orlandoflorida #floridalocal
Come check out my some of my favorite coffee shops Come check out my some of my favorite coffee shops in Central Florida with me! ☕️🧋🍵🫖

First up? @xocoffeeshop ! This gem is in Kissimmee, Florida, just a short drive from WDW for those of you who are visiting. The menu is creative + always changing, they do fun events for locals, and it’s the perfect place for a three hour coffee date (I would know). 

📍Location: 4965 W Irlo Bronson Memorial Highway
Kissimmee, FL 34746
😎 Vibe: Warm, cozy, local, plants
🤍 Perfect for: work, friend date, reading a book
🌸 Seasonal Menu: Yes
☕️ What to order: Butter Brew or Mango Black Tea 


#coffeeshopvibes #coffeeshop #orlandolocal #localorlando #orlandofl #orlandoflorida #tealover #teatime #cozyvibes #hygge
✨💕🎀 Imagination, life is your creation. 🎀💕✨

💘 Keep swiping for a fun surprise. 

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10 Things I Wish I Knew In My Early 20’s

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Not everyone benefits from college.

College can be a smart and helpful step for many people, but not everyone benefits from it. If you are going into a career where you will not be required to have a college degree, you may not need to go into debt for a degree. Many people who do go to college end up in different career fields and even more say that what they learned at school doesn’t apply to their actual job. I’m not saying college is a bad option; for many people it is a path that leads to success. Just be sure you are going to college because you want to and not because society is telling you that you should.

 

Time passes quickly.

The older you get, the more time flies. I am not telling you this to scare you, I am telling you this so that you will embrace the here and now! There is no time like the present to do all the things you want to do.

 

Being kind and positive won’t make everyone like you.

I used to try so hard to be nice to everyone, even if that person wasn’t nice in return. In my early 20’s, I had a really hard time with the idea that someone may not like me. If you are a kind, positive, happy person, don’t let anyone steal that joy from you. At the same time, remember that not everyone will want to share in your happiness, and that’s okay. There are plenty of positive people in this world. Spend more time around them and less time around people who don’t like you.

 

It’s easier to overcome anything with supportive people in your corner.

When my grandmother died when I was 21, I tried to go through that completely alone. I didn’t make the same mistake when my grandfather died when I was 27. Now I know how important it is to let my friends and family completely in when I need them. It’s okay to be vulnerable and it’s brave to ask for help. No one can do everything in life completely by themselves. Even Oprah has Gale.

 

Your friend group will change.

I still care deeply for all the people who were in my friendship circle in my early 20s. Many of those people are still in my group of close friends today. However, I have drifted apart from some of those friends as well. As you get older, people have children, careers change, moves happen, marriages happen, and even divorces happen. All these things will change your circle of friends over time.

 

Be open to new friendships.

Even though some of your friendships will change or come to an end. You should stay open to new friendships. You don’t meet all of your friends during your high school and college years. In fact, you will meet many new friends throughout your life and some of them you will instantly click with and wonder how you haven’t known them your whole life.

 

You will make mistakes.

You are not perfect. No one is perfect and no one expects you to be. Give yourself a break and love yourself the way you are. Make mistakes and learn from them. Don’t be afraid of not doing everything a certain way. Pave your own way.

 

Life is not fair. 

Sometimes, bad things happen to good people and there is nothing that we can do to change that. What we can do is focus on how to make the situation better. Things will happen to you or others throughout life that you do not think are fair. Learn to do what you can and move on.

 

Don’t let stress run your life.

From work to relationships to school and life goals, there are so many things in life to stress about. If you let it, stress will take over your life quickly. Find a way to relieve stress, whether it is meditation, working out, or some other healthy outlet. It’s completely understandable to be bothered by some things in life but you have to learn how to handle the stress that follows. Also, try not to sweat the small stuff. Most of what you are stressing out about now will not matter by this time next year.

 

Do what you want to do. Live your life for you.

You only get one life here on earth so don’t live it for anyone else. Your life is your own and you deserve to live a life that makes you happy. People who live their lives according to what their parents, friends, and society want instead of following their own path, normally end up regretting it. Anyone who wants you to be happy will support you following your dreams and aspirations in life.

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The first half of spring was full of flowers in bl The first half of spring was full of flowers in bloom and cool breezes. The second half has been violent daily storms that make the sky look like something out of a sci-fi movie. I’m just remembering to get my walks in early during the day so I can be home for dinner and a storm in the evening. 

🌿 Spotted some rainbow flares on a walk through the woods. 

🌿 Saw the cutest little guy walking around downtown Celebration. 

🌿 I love all the nature and architecture in Winter Park. 

🌿 Happy Mermaid week!

#springtime #intentionalliving #slowliving #naturewalks #cozyliving #intentionalmovement #cozyvibes #greenery #naturelovers #orlandoliving
Plants. Rainbows. Flowers. Tacos. #theseareafewofm Plants. Rainbows. Flowers. Tacos. #theseareafewofmyfavoritethings 

Also, if you are wondering where our review mirror is in that second photo, it’s so hot here that the connector piece just melted off that morning. 🫠 

#springtime #springflowers #plantlover #plantlife #pottery #plantpot #plantlove #flowerstagram #rainbow #rainbowaesthetic #nature #intentionalliving #slowliving #tacos #vegantacos
We have a little over a month left of spring and I We have a little over a month left of spring and I plan to spend it intentionally enjoying so much of what this season has to offer. April was a whirlwind of family emergencies and stress so this May, I’ve really been taking the time to slow down, live in the moment, and focus on joy. Every season I have a hygge bucket list of things I want to do at least once (but usually often) during that season. So many people write down and prioritize goals for their career or their body but it’s important to also create goals around your mental health and well being. 

How To Enjoy Hygge This Spring: 

🌷  Explore your neighborhood. 
🌷 Visit a botanical garden. 
🌷 Gift plants to your friends and neighbors.
🌷 Learn a new iced drink recipe.
🌷 Start a garden (or get one new plant).
🌷 Have a picnic. 
🌷 Eat seasonal vegetables and fruit.
🌷 Play an outdoor sport. 
🌷 Enjoy the natural light in your home.
🌷 Read on a hammock or bench outside. 
🌷Donate items you aren’t using often.
🌷Go to the farmer’s market.
🌷Do something creative.

How do you plan to enjoy the last month of spring this year?

#springtime #spring #springflowers #springflower #hygge #hyggelife #hyggestyle #hyggeliving #intentionalliving #intentionallife #joyfulliving #joyfulmoments #findingjoy
Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 3 was a 10 out of 10! Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 3 was a 10 out of 10! As we all know, I love the MCU as a whole but the Guardians are my absolute favorite. James Gunn did not disappoint. This was a very satisfying end to one of my favorite trilogies of all time. 

🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀

#guardiansofthegalaxy #guardiansofthegalaxyvol3 #marvel #marvelmovies #mcu #marvelcinematicuniverse #marvelcomics #amctheaters #disneysprings #nerdlife #marveluniverse #marvelfan
The saying April showers bring May flowers really The saying April showers bring May flowers really describes how I feel about the transition from last month to this month. May is already going much better than April and I can’t wait to see what other wonderful things happen this month. 🤍🌸 

#spring #flowers #springflowers #springweather #springnature #springdecor #hyggelife #intentionalliving #naturelovers #greatoutdoors #springinflorida #floridaspring #blueskies #slowliving #happymoments #serotoninboost
I’m so thankful to this sweet little girl for ge I’m so thankful to this sweet little girl for getting us through this crazy month. She kept us laughing and helped us manage our stress even on the more challenging days. I love her personality, even if she is a bit spoiled. 😅 I’m so glad we get to live in a world where dogs exist. 

#doglover #dogsarethebest #pitbulldog #pitbulladvocate #pitbullsofinstagram #dogsofinstagram #pitbulllove #emotionalsupportanimal #emotionalsupportdog #pitbullgram #cutedogs
Scenes from a earth day celebration with @disneyki Scenes from a earth day celebration with @disneykismet + @mmalikaj. 🌍🤍

#earthday #explore #earthdayeveryday #lovetheearth #loveourplanet #planetearth #animalkingdom #disneysanimalkingdom #dak #earthdaybirthday #wdw #orlandoflorida #floridalocal
Come check out my some of my favorite coffee shops Come check out my some of my favorite coffee shops in Central Florida with me! ☕️🧋🍵🫖

First up? @xocoffeeshop ! This gem is in Kissimmee, Florida, just a short drive from WDW for those of you who are visiting. The menu is creative + always changing, they do fun events for locals, and it’s the perfect place for a three hour coffee date (I would know). 

📍Location: 4965 W Irlo Bronson Memorial Highway
Kissimmee, FL 34746
😎 Vibe: Warm, cozy, local, plants
🤍 Perfect for: work, friend date, reading a book
🌸 Seasonal Menu: Yes
☕️ What to order: Butter Brew or Mango Black Tea 


#coffeeshopvibes #coffeeshop #orlandolocal #localorlando #orlandofl #orlandoflorida #tealover #teatime #cozyvibes #hygge
✨💕🎀 Imagination, life is your creation. 🎀💕✨

💘 Keep swiping for a fun surprise. 

#barbie #barbiemovie #barbiegirl #barbiedoll #barbiestyle #barbiegram #barbiecore #heartshaped #sunglass #blackbarbie #blackbarbies
Starting the first Monday in April off with some a Starting the first Monday in April off with some art. 🖼️🎨 

Spring is such a great time to enjoy outdoor galleries and the one at @disneysprings is one of my favorites because it always celebrates diversity. If you are looking for something fun and free to do this spring, add this to your list! 

#spring #outdoorart #celebratediversity #disneysprings #artwalk #artgallery #visitorlando #orlandoflorida #blackgirldisney #orlandofl #disneyworld #wdw #springday #springactivities #springmood #orlandoart #springlover
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