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It is inevitable.
Change is always going to happen. If you are a control freak (like me) it can be unsettling to know that something will continue to happen over the course of your lifetime whether you want it to or not. Regardless of what you do though, change is inevitable. Making peace with the fact that over time (and sometimes all at once) things will change gives you the freedom to enjoy whatever stage of your life you are currently in and not take anything for granted.
Change is refreshing. It makes things feel new.
While change can bring us new challenges, it also can make things better than they were before. We tend to dislike changes because we usually start out believing they are for the worst but often times, they are actually for the best. Even if the latest change in your life isn’t exactly what you wanted, try finding the silver lining. Also, pay attention to how this new change may become even better over time.
You can create your own change.
If you are still not convinced that change can be a great thing, why not try creating your own? It is a popular belief that you are the master of your own destiny so why not step in and make change happen in a positive way? If you don’t like something going on in your life or in the world, change it. If something in your life changes and you are not enjoying it, work to change the situation to one that better suits you. Always remember that we are all capable of making effective changes in our lives and in the lives of others.
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