We receive hate, lies, injustice, and death. But We receive hate, lies, injustice, and death. 

But we deserve joy.

So many of us are reaching new levels of exhaustion because of the continued attacks on our community by those who are being paid to protect us. There are some days where our situation feels impossible. On those days, please take the time out to do one small thing that brings you joy. As Black people, we have to experience and carry so much trauma while living in this country. But we deserve joy. We deserve joy.
I’ve been spending every free moment chasing gor I’ve been spending every free moment chasing gorgeous blooms. I know they don’t last long so I’m trying to enjoy them as much as a can while they are here. It’s a great reminder to live in the moment and enjoy your life right now.
Lately I’ve been meditating, manifesting, and do Lately I’ve been meditating, manifesting, and doing a little bit of yoga before I even get out of bed. Yes, you heard that right, I do bed yoga. Doing these simple things before I leave the comfort of my bed have really been helping me feel like I can take on anything during the day. Do you do anything special in the morning that makes you feel more equipped to handle the day?
I’m so happy that the weather is consistently co I’m so happy that the weather is consistently cooperating and we can get out to explore more! I’m usually a homebody but being stuck inside this past winter has really made me appreciate every good weather day so much more than I ever have before. The best thing about being in a new city is that everything is new to me so even staying close to home feels like an adventure.
Drinking my way through Orlando with all the best Drinking my way through Orlando with all the best teas!🧋
Home is whenever I’m with you. 🤍🍵 @qreatec Home is whenever I’m with you. 🤍🍵 @qreatecoffee
Happy first day of spring! Most of the blooms aren Happy first day of spring! Most of the blooms aren’t out yet in the DC area but that didn’t stop us from spending every moment we could outside today. I am SO happy that winter is officially over and I can’t wait to twirl around under cherry blossoms in a few weeks.
Happy Gotcha Day @valkyrieambrosonokeefe! I truly Happy Gotcha Day @valkyrieambrosonokeefe! I truly don’t know how we would have made it through this year without you! You are the sweetest, happiest, cuddliest dog ever. 🤍🐾
Just out here searching for spring! It was here fo Just out here searching for spring! It was here for a minute but it disappeared! Here’s hoping I see weather in the 70’s (or at least the 60’s) sometime soon. 🌿🌤🌺
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Uncategorized · August 20, 2014

My Support Group

my support group

Not long ago I talked about the importance of having a support group in order to succeed to your fullest potential. Below are the ideal types of people to have in your support group. Having someone like each of these, or a combination of the five, in your corner will make conquering the world that much easier.

The One Who Can Fix Anything

We all need the one friend who channels their inner Olivia Pope on a regular basis. When you are in a crisis and you don’t know what your next move is, this particular friend will know exactly what to do. They always have the best advice in every situation and they are happy to give it to a friend in need.

The One Who Gets It

Similar to The One Who Can Fix Anything, The One Who Gets It is someone you call when you have a problem. However, The One Who Gets It doesn’t specialize in advice but in listening. It’s great to have someone in your life who you can vent to but doesn’t always feel the need to give advice. It can be really nice to know that someone understands and is there to lend an ear without analyzing the situation. Sometimes you don’t really need advice but you just need to get something off of your chest.

The One Who Tells You When You Are Wrong

“It takes a great deal of courage to stand up to your enemies, but a great deal more to stand up to your friends.” –Dumbledore

Having friends that see things from your point of view is a great feeling but what is even more important is having a friend who isn’t afraid to tell you when you are wrong. Regardless of how intellectual and levelheaded you are, we are all wrong sometimes. Having someone in your corner who isn’t afraid to tell you when that time comes is important.

The One From a Different World

Often times, creative people and entrepreneurs are stuck in their own little world. It can take a lot of focus to run a business or be an artist so sometimes, everything that is a not a part of that little world gets shut out. Having a person who reminds you that there is a world outside of photoshop and WordPress is so important. This friend might be so different from you that you sometimes wonder how you ended up as friends but then they will teach you something you knew nothing about and you will return the favor and remember why this person is such an important addition to your personal support group.

The One Who is Always There

It’s important to have that one person who you can always rely on regardless of the situation. This person will always side with you and stand next to you when no one else will. You know that this person is your number one fan and will always be there for you.

Ideally, this person will believes in you during your weak moments, celebrate you in your great moments, and will always be there for support in every moment in between. They might not understand every aspect of your life or career but that’s alright because they will support you in anything and always be there for you.

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We receive hate, lies, injustice, and death. But We receive hate, lies, injustice, and death. 

But we deserve joy.

So many of us are reaching new levels of exhaustion because of the continued attacks on our community by those who are being paid to protect us. There are some days where our situation feels impossible. On those days, please take the time out to do one small thing that brings you joy. As Black people, we have to experience and carry so much trauma while living in this country. But we deserve joy. We deserve joy.
I’ve been spending every free moment chasing gor I’ve been spending every free moment chasing gorgeous blooms. I know they don’t last long so I’m trying to enjoy them as much as a can while they are here. It’s a great reminder to live in the moment and enjoy your life right now.
Lately I’ve been meditating, manifesting, and do Lately I’ve been meditating, manifesting, and doing a little bit of yoga before I even get out of bed. Yes, you heard that right, I do bed yoga. Doing these simple things before I leave the comfort of my bed have really been helping me feel like I can take on anything during the day. Do you do anything special in the morning that makes you feel more equipped to handle the day?
I’m so happy that the weather is consistently co I’m so happy that the weather is consistently cooperating and we can get out to explore more! I’m usually a homebody but being stuck inside this past winter has really made me appreciate every good weather day so much more than I ever have before. The best thing about being in a new city is that everything is new to me so even staying close to home feels like an adventure.
Drinking my way through Orlando with all the best Drinking my way through Orlando with all the best teas!🧋
Home is whenever I’m with you. 🤍🍵 @qreatec Home is whenever I’m with you. 🤍🍵 @qreatecoffee
Happy first day of spring! Most of the blooms aren Happy first day of spring! Most of the blooms aren’t out yet in the DC area but that didn’t stop us from spending every moment we could outside today. I am SO happy that winter is officially over and I can’t wait to twirl around under cherry blossoms in a few weeks.
Happy Gotcha Day @valkyrieambrosonokeefe! I truly Happy Gotcha Day @valkyrieambrosonokeefe! I truly don’t know how we would have made it through this year without you! You are the sweetest, happiest, cuddliest dog ever. 🤍🐾
Just out here searching for spring! It was here fo Just out here searching for spring! It was here for a minute but it disappeared! Here’s hoping I see weather in the 70’s (or at least the 60’s) sometime soon. 🌿🌤🌺
Happy Monday! Welcome to a new week. If last week Happy Monday! Welcome to a new week. If last week wasn’t your favorite, thankfully we have a new one. This week I’m looking forward to John’s birthday, Valkyrie’s gotcha day, and St. Patrick’s Day! What are you looking forward to this week?

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